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I made this website and, naturally, I want people to visit it, but I feel like nobody knows about it.
How can I get people to visit my site? ~Marina ;)
How can I get people to visit my site? ~Marina ;)
Dear Marina, First of all. You mainly have to get people's attention. Let them know you have a website. Tell all of your friends, give them a slip of paper that has the site address on it, ask your teacher if they can show the website to everyone in class, (with help from anything that lets people see the screen) also give the students the website, ask your principle if you can hang up a poster about your site, anything to get attention! Hope this helps!
~Hadden :)
~Hadden :)
I haven't talked to my friend in awhile. I moved away from her years ago and we still call each other about everyday, but it seems like our lives have just been getting busier and busier. She has play auditions, I'm with a friend. What can I do to make sure we continue with our friendship? -Kate
Dear Kate, you're doing all that you can, and that's a good thing. You're showing that you care. If you would like to do more for her though, make a beautiful card for her that says that you're still true friends and miss her, call her once and a while, email her, anything you can to keep in touch with her! (Especially if it is the valentine season!) Or, you can ask your mom if you can go visit her sometime during summer vacation or a long winters break. Be patient. Just remember to show her you care.
~Hadden :)
~Hadden :)
Lately, people haven't been liking me that much. I mean, I feel just fine with my class, but the other class is just full with bullies. ALL THE DRAMA!!! And even those who don't bully me and my friends, don't like me. Mostly because of what I did last year. How can I clear up the record and let people know I've changed? -NO NAME PLEASE ........
Dear NNP, This is a very serious problem. Before you do anything, stop. Then, think. "What did I do to hurt other people? Who should I apologize to?" Any question you think is necessary.
Next, act. Apologize, commit acts of kindness to the people who are bullying you. It will be hard, but I know you can do it. Just make sure to show people how nice you can really be. Compromise when in a fight, never fight physically or with harsh words.
After acting, rethink. "Did I do the right thing? Are the people who didn't like me starting to change their minds?" If some people didn't, that's fine, you can't force someone to like you! That's just the way some people are! And about the thing you did last year, shake it off. That time's history! So don't stay stuck in the chapter... Just turn the page. Remind other people that when they bring it up.
Remember, to always do S.T.A.R. when in a tough situation. Stop. Think. Act. Rethink. If you do, your problems are sure to disappear!
~Hadden :)
Next, act. Apologize, commit acts of kindness to the people who are bullying you. It will be hard, but I know you can do it. Just make sure to show people how nice you can really be. Compromise when in a fight, never fight physically or with harsh words.
After acting, rethink. "Did I do the right thing? Are the people who didn't like me starting to change their minds?" If some people didn't, that's fine, you can't force someone to like you! That's just the way some people are! And about the thing you did last year, shake it off. That time's history! So don't stay stuck in the chapter... Just turn the page. Remind other people that when they bring it up.
Remember, to always do S.T.A.R. when in a tough situation. Stop. Think. Act. Rethink. If you do, your problems are sure to disappear!
~Hadden :)
For a while, I've wanted an iPod, And for Christmas, my parents got me one. The problem? It's old, and won't work that well. What I REALLY want is an iPod Touch!!! My friend has one and I think it's awesome!!! How can I save enough money for one AND let my parents get it and get rid of the old one??? -Anxious
Dear Anxious, try to show your parents how much you really want an iPod Touch. The best time to make your parents get one for you is Christmas time. That way, you can ask every "santa" you see for an iPod Touch, while your parents are witnesses of you asking.
And every time you go to the mall or look through a magazine and find an ad with an iPod Touch, look at it longingly, make sure that your parents see you staring at it! But remember, if you do get an iPod Touch, show your parents how thankful you our to get it! Use it often, clean and take great care of it. If you can handle that, your sure to get an iPod Touch!
~Hadden :)
And every time you go to the mall or look through a magazine and find an ad with an iPod Touch, look at it longingly, make sure that your parents see you staring at it! But remember, if you do get an iPod Touch, show your parents how thankful you our to get it! Use it often, clean and take great care of it. If you can handle that, your sure to get an iPod Touch!
~Hadden :)
We're doing something new in math class, which requires you to be in partners. I get to choose my partner, but the problem is, I have 2 AWESOME friends in my class to choose from. I don't want to hurt the other one's feelings. Plus, I've been partners with one of them a lot more than the other. How can I choose? -Puzzled Chooser
Dear Puzzled Chooser, I know both of your friends are very good people, but think of the pros and cons of each of them. Who do you work the hardest with? Which one will make the best choices? Who do you enjoy your time with the most? Think of the situation of each friend too. When you're s partner with one of your friends, who is your other friend partners with? Are any of your friends moving soon? (If they are moving soon, you probably aren't going to be partners with them ever again.)
Above all, make your choices wisely and don't let others make your choices for you. But, remember, if you choose a friend and the other gets left out, always remind that person that you had a hard time choosing and really thought about it, and explain to her how and why you made that choice. Do anything to reassure your friend.
~Hadden :)
Above all, make your choices wisely and don't let others make your choices for you. But, remember, if you choose a friend and the other gets left out, always remind that person that you had a hard time choosing and really thought about it, and explain to her how and why you made that choice. Do anything to reassure your friend.
~Hadden :)
There's this guy in my class and we talk a lot mostly just about really random stuff. Usually he's the one who starts the conversations. I don't know what to think about him. I am sort of thinking he likes me, but I'm not sure. How can I tell he likes me? -Anonymous Person
Dear Anonymous Person, a lot of boys are really chatty and fidgety when they are talking to the person they like. But, of course, there's always another reason to everything. So, who knows? Maybe he's just a lonely guy wanting someone to talk to! Whatever the reason is, just enjoy what you talk about, and try not to bring it up, it might embarrass him! You know boys! They'll do ANYTHING to make themselves look cool.
~Hadden :)
~Hadden :)
School is coming up and this year and I'll be in middle school. I'm really excited, but worried and nervous. I've heard rumors about bullies and mean teachers. How can I calm myself down and be prepared? Sincerely, Anonymous Person
Dear Anonymous Person, everyone is scared when it comes to their first year in middle school. But, instead of thinking of middle school as something scary, think of it as a fresh, new start! You'll be expected to be more responsible, more caring, and more of a leader.
And, as for the bullies, don't worry about them. The best way to get them off your back is to have a lot of good friends to help you whenever you need it.
The rumors about mean teachers, are nothing to worry about either. In middle school, you don't usually have one teacher for the whole entire year. So, if you do end up getting at least one mean teacher, just remind yourself that it's almost impossible to have every single teacher you get to be cruel. I'm sure you'll have a wonderful time in middle school. Just remember to be smart, be kind, be organized, and have fun!
~Hadden :)
And, as for the bullies, don't worry about them. The best way to get them off your back is to have a lot of good friends to help you whenever you need it.
The rumors about mean teachers, are nothing to worry about either. In middle school, you don't usually have one teacher for the whole entire year. So, if you do end up getting at least one mean teacher, just remind yourself that it's almost impossible to have every single teacher you get to be cruel. I'm sure you'll have a wonderful time in middle school. Just remember to be smart, be kind, be organized, and have fun!
~Hadden :)
Well, I'm going to middle school next year, and I'm kinda nervous. I'm also gonna have to wear glasses. First: what is middle school like (if you know) and second: what is it like wearing glasses? Please let me know before school starts! ~Marina ;)~
Dear Marina, ah, the middle school jitters. That's been happening a lot lately! But, like I said before to the Anonymous Person above, don't think of middle school as something scary, think of it as a fresh, new start!
For example: You won't be the oldest in the school like last year, instead, you'll be in the youngest grade! It's kind of like starting school all over again! Only, you have to work much harder! You will have a lot more freedom than last year. But, remember, that freedom is a privilege, not a right!
Now, about the glasses, don't worry about that! In my opinion, people actually look a little better in glasses! You may think otherwise, but, soon, you'll be pretty proud of yourself! "I like my glasses! Why didn't I think of this before? It's like living in a whole new world!"
And, did you know? 75% of learning all depends on the child's eyesight! So, glasses are important! If you don't like your glasses after a long while, maybe you would like contacts! (But, you'll still have to keep your glasses, because if you ever wake up in the middle of the night to do something, you have to use your glasses instead of contacts!)
~Hadden :)
For example: You won't be the oldest in the school like last year, instead, you'll be in the youngest grade! It's kind of like starting school all over again! Only, you have to work much harder! You will have a lot more freedom than last year. But, remember, that freedom is a privilege, not a right!
Now, about the glasses, don't worry about that! In my opinion, people actually look a little better in glasses! You may think otherwise, but, soon, you'll be pretty proud of yourself! "I like my glasses! Why didn't I think of this before? It's like living in a whole new world!"
And, did you know? 75% of learning all depends on the child's eyesight! So, glasses are important! If you don't like your glasses after a long while, maybe you would like contacts! (But, you'll still have to keep your glasses, because if you ever wake up in the middle of the night to do something, you have to use your glasses instead of contacts!)
~Hadden :)
My cousin e-mailed me, her name is Anna, and we always get into big fights. On e-mail, and off. I don't know what to do about it. She is mean. Not only to me, but also to her sister, who she always leaves out. -Mariah Miller
Dear Mariah,
Yikes. That doesn't sound good at all. The first NOT to do: is be rude back. That's a big no-no. But what you SHOULD try to do: is ignore her. It sounds rude, but ignoring someone can actually be a good problem solver. If she send her emails with mean things in them, delete it. And if you see your cousin and you know a horrible comment is going to come soon, try to avoid it and talk to someone else. That can even mean hanging out with your parents! It will all work out anyway! So don't sweat it.
So, you ignored the person, But that doesn't mean you should ignore the PROBLEM. You need to take care of it. Once and for all. If haven't already, talk to a parent or guardian. It can seem reeeeeeeally embarrassing. But don't worry. They care. A lot. And the person that you talk to will try to comfort you. Plus, spilling the beans on the situation will make you feel A LOT better. If your cousin doesn't stop, and if the parent can't handle it, keep ignoring her! But also, be a good example. That might teach her a few things about behavior to others. And...
Smile. It irritates those who wish to destroy you. ;)
Good luck!
~Hadden :)
Yikes. That doesn't sound good at all. The first NOT to do: is be rude back. That's a big no-no. But what you SHOULD try to do: is ignore her. It sounds rude, but ignoring someone can actually be a good problem solver. If she send her emails with mean things in them, delete it. And if you see your cousin and you know a horrible comment is going to come soon, try to avoid it and talk to someone else. That can even mean hanging out with your parents! It will all work out anyway! So don't sweat it.
So, you ignored the person, But that doesn't mean you should ignore the PROBLEM. You need to take care of it. Once and for all. If haven't already, talk to a parent or guardian. It can seem reeeeeeeally embarrassing. But don't worry. They care. A lot. And the person that you talk to will try to comfort you. Plus, spilling the beans on the situation will make you feel A LOT better. If your cousin doesn't stop, and if the parent can't handle it, keep ignoring her! But also, be a good example. That might teach her a few things about behavior to others. And...
Smile. It irritates those who wish to destroy you. ;)
Good luck!
~Hadden :)
I liked a guy while my friend was dating him and I felt terrible about it. But then they broke up and I took that opportunity and we started flirting and what not. But then my literal best friend in the world likes him and she starts making it a competition and blames it on me!
So then this summer we got into a huge fight and she told me never to talk to her ever again. So I freaked out because we would wear the same clothes and did everything together! But then we made up and we've had a lot of fun again but there is still that tension, and I told her that I didnt like him anymore to get her to stop hating me.... But I still really like him and I'm sorta in love with 3 guys... (including him) But I just don't know what to do so we dont get into another fight, or if I should stay liking him or what!
-Beautiful Girl
So then this summer we got into a huge fight and she told me never to talk to her ever again. So I freaked out because we would wear the same clothes and did everything together! But then we made up and we've had a lot of fun again but there is still that tension, and I told her that I didnt like him anymore to get her to stop hating me.... But I still really like him and I'm sorta in love with 3 guys... (including him) But I just don't know what to do so we dont get into another fight, or if I should stay liking him or what!
-Beautiful Girl
Dear Beautiful Girl,
TWO OLD FRIENDS + 1 CRUSH = DISASTER
That's just the beginners' class on drama 101 and boys, people.
So, let's start step by step. When you're friend was dating a guy you liked, you felt terrible about it. That's actually a good thing! :) It means you really care about your friend's feelings and don't want to betray her. Act on that, and you'll be OK. But once you took the opportunity to start flirting with the guy after they broke up, she starts to like him.
No one should be surprised at this. Usually, when a couple breaks up, chances are they still have feelings for each other. And even MONTHS after a break-up, a girl (or boy) will seriously get upset if they see someone flirting with their "special somebody." Whether it's an old partner or a new one. So, your friend was probably jealous at you flirting, and she wanted to show the guy that she's a better girl than you are. (Which is totally not true.) It turns out to become a game of "Boy VS Bud." Which is never fun to play.
It wasn't right for your friend to make it a competition. (And that doesn't mean she's a bad person.) But this is a time when you and your friend BOTH need to care about each other. Put her first in front of any boy. No matter what happens. She should do the same. Every girl goes through a boy crazy stage. Which always turns out DRAMATIC. (See colorful example at top of advice) Give it some time.
And about the tension between you and your friend... well, let's just put it this way:
It needs to end. ASAP.
It hurts, but sometimes you need to tell the truth. She's going to get upset. But, remind her that you care about her more than ANY boy! And, if you like 2 other boys, maybe you could start to pay more attention to them if the friend is still "clingy." Start reading another book, turning another page, opening another door. (Which means: maybe it's time to move on.)
No crush lasts when you're in the middle of a crisis. In fact, no crush lasts... At all. So try to take a breather when you can.
Here's a few tips on what to do during a break-down, a break-up, or anything in between:
-Talk to someone. Write it down. Express your feelings. It feels good to just let it out! Pick a good shoulder to cry on, and just... let it out. :)
-When you're out of tears, do something physical. Go for a swim, break out the skates, bike, or hockey stick. Make it a good point to do something active every day to let out your anger or frustration. You can even punch a pillow. But not all of that has to be violent. Another way to let it out is:
-Be with or do something you love. A cuddly pet, your soft blanket, your diary, ANYTHING! You will feel eventually comfort.
-Call friends. Make plans. Don't just sit there feeling sorry for yourself! Keep life moving. Pretty soon, this problem will be a speck in the rearview mirror!
My point is, just be careful. Not everything turns out the way you plan it. Everything happens for a reason. Good things fall apart so better things can fall together. You just need to believe in yourself.
And you're all set. So, turn down the dramatic noise in your head! (actually, turn it off!) And try to do what you think is the right thing to do. Good luck.
~Hadden :)
P.S. How about I add a heart just to get you going? <3
TWO OLD FRIENDS + 1 CRUSH = DISASTER
That's just the beginners' class on drama 101 and boys, people.
So, let's start step by step. When you're friend was dating a guy you liked, you felt terrible about it. That's actually a good thing! :) It means you really care about your friend's feelings and don't want to betray her. Act on that, and you'll be OK. But once you took the opportunity to start flirting with the guy after they broke up, she starts to like him.
No one should be surprised at this. Usually, when a couple breaks up, chances are they still have feelings for each other. And even MONTHS after a break-up, a girl (or boy) will seriously get upset if they see someone flirting with their "special somebody." Whether it's an old partner or a new one. So, your friend was probably jealous at you flirting, and she wanted to show the guy that she's a better girl than you are. (Which is totally not true.) It turns out to become a game of "Boy VS Bud." Which is never fun to play.
It wasn't right for your friend to make it a competition. (And that doesn't mean she's a bad person.) But this is a time when you and your friend BOTH need to care about each other. Put her first in front of any boy. No matter what happens. She should do the same. Every girl goes through a boy crazy stage. Which always turns out DRAMATIC. (See colorful example at top of advice) Give it some time.
And about the tension between you and your friend... well, let's just put it this way:
It needs to end. ASAP.
It hurts, but sometimes you need to tell the truth. She's going to get upset. But, remind her that you care about her more than ANY boy! And, if you like 2 other boys, maybe you could start to pay more attention to them if the friend is still "clingy." Start reading another book, turning another page, opening another door. (Which means: maybe it's time to move on.)
No crush lasts when you're in the middle of a crisis. In fact, no crush lasts... At all. So try to take a breather when you can.
Here's a few tips on what to do during a break-down, a break-up, or anything in between:
-Talk to someone. Write it down. Express your feelings. It feels good to just let it out! Pick a good shoulder to cry on, and just... let it out. :)
-When you're out of tears, do something physical. Go for a swim, break out the skates, bike, or hockey stick. Make it a good point to do something active every day to let out your anger or frustration. You can even punch a pillow. But not all of that has to be violent. Another way to let it out is:
-Be with or do something you love. A cuddly pet, your soft blanket, your diary, ANYTHING! You will feel eventually comfort.
-Call friends. Make plans. Don't just sit there feeling sorry for yourself! Keep life moving. Pretty soon, this problem will be a speck in the rearview mirror!
My point is, just be careful. Not everything turns out the way you plan it. Everything happens for a reason. Good things fall apart so better things can fall together. You just need to believe in yourself.
And you're all set. So, turn down the dramatic noise in your head! (actually, turn it off!) And try to do what you think is the right thing to do. Good luck.
~Hadden :)
P.S. How about I add a heart just to get you going? <3
So, even though it's summer, during the school year, I started liking this boy who went to our school named Andrew, but i liked/like this other boy named Parker, too. Parker had moved away to Oklahoma, but is planning to come back soon. But, during the school year, I told someone that I like Andrew, and they told everyone else, then, people started thinking that Andrew and I were dating, even though we weren't. And so, at the end of the year, he had to break up with me. Then, there was this girl named Charlotte, who likes Andrew too, and Andrew likes her, but he also likes me, and I think people think we're still dating. PLEASE HELP!!!!! = (
-Mariah Miller
-Mariah Miller
Wow! You have a lot going for you! But, not exactly a lot of "good" stuff going for you. :/ That's the sad part.
Let me tell you this, boys ALWAYS create something dramatic no matter what! But, that doesn't mean it's "wrong" to have a crush on one. And, going to a school that makes you feel like you're living in a fishbowl doesn't make it any better! Let's chop this problem into little "bite-sized" pieces to make it easier to think through.
It's TOTALLY normal to like more than one boy! (I use to like 2 or 3 boys at a time in 4th grade! I can't tell you how embarrassing it turned out!) But, sometimes that creates even more drama. It's not a bad thing, it's just a BIG warning that more than one boy can equal double trouble! Especially when you tell just ONE person about your crush(es)! Whisper one word, and it spread like wildfire with no way to stop it! D:
Classmates can make up crazy rumors, because they always love thinking about the worst possible, and most embarrassing thing for the person. Mainly, because they're glad that none of this is happening to them! Yet, everyone loves to listen to drama! Which never turns out into something good! Feelings are hurt, friends turn to enemies, .... Couples break up .... </3
Just so no one "has to get hurt any further." But in the end, everyone always has to mend an emotional wound. :(
I know what you're thinking, "Where the heck is my advice? All of this is just random stuff that I could easily figure out for myself! This isn't what I asked for!"
Well, there's really nothing you can do to make this problem work out. It's sad, but, it's true. I've been through the EXACT same scenario! Almost every girl does at some point. usually more than once. (Like most boy problems!) :P
The most you can do, is clearly state to people that you're NOT going out with ANYONE. And, with Charlotte, you can't control who she likes. Soon, she'll get over Andrew, and you'll get over him, too. If you ever try to have a competition against Charlotte to try and get Andrew for yourself, forget it. That NEVER solves anything.
The best thing you can do to help yourself, is BE yourself. A loving, beautiful girl who's kind and helpful. Biys care more about a sweet girl than a snobby one! ;)
Your future is up to fate now. Let's see where it takes you.
But, don't worry, like I say: good things fall apart, so better things can fall together.
Good luck. <3
~Hadden :)
Let me tell you this, boys ALWAYS create something dramatic no matter what! But, that doesn't mean it's "wrong" to have a crush on one. And, going to a school that makes you feel like you're living in a fishbowl doesn't make it any better! Let's chop this problem into little "bite-sized" pieces to make it easier to think through.
It's TOTALLY normal to like more than one boy! (I use to like 2 or 3 boys at a time in 4th grade! I can't tell you how embarrassing it turned out!) But, sometimes that creates even more drama. It's not a bad thing, it's just a BIG warning that more than one boy can equal double trouble! Especially when you tell just ONE person about your crush(es)! Whisper one word, and it spread like wildfire with no way to stop it! D:
Classmates can make up crazy rumors, because they always love thinking about the worst possible, and most embarrassing thing for the person. Mainly, because they're glad that none of this is happening to them! Yet, everyone loves to listen to drama! Which never turns out into something good! Feelings are hurt, friends turn to enemies, .... Couples break up .... </3
Just so no one "has to get hurt any further." But in the end, everyone always has to mend an emotional wound. :(
I know what you're thinking, "Where the heck is my advice? All of this is just random stuff that I could easily figure out for myself! This isn't what I asked for!"
Well, there's really nothing you can do to make this problem work out. It's sad, but, it's true. I've been through the EXACT same scenario! Almost every girl does at some point. usually more than once. (Like most boy problems!) :P
The most you can do, is clearly state to people that you're NOT going out with ANYONE. And, with Charlotte, you can't control who she likes. Soon, she'll get over Andrew, and you'll get over him, too. If you ever try to have a competition against Charlotte to try and get Andrew for yourself, forget it. That NEVER solves anything.
The best thing you can do to help yourself, is BE yourself. A loving, beautiful girl who's kind and helpful. Biys care more about a sweet girl than a snobby one! ;)
Your future is up to fate now. Let's see where it takes you.
But, don't worry, like I say: good things fall apart, so better things can fall together.
Good luck. <3
~Hadden :)
Any flirting tips? -No Name
This is definitely the shortest question I've ever gotten! :)
So, flirting is basically just something you do for fun that shouldn't lead to anything big. It could be something simple like "That shirt looks good on you!" or "Did you do something with your hair? I like it." Mainly, the first thing you do to flirt, is start a conversation to get the guy feeling comfortable around you so he can talk to you and stuff like that!
If you kinda like a boy, and you want to get to know him better, ask about his common interests. Do you play the sax? Snowboard? Read science fiction? Maybe he does, too! Ask some questions, and start off from there.
Conversation Starters:
-Ask about his activities. It's friendly and gets him talking. "How did your team do last night?"
-Schoolwork: a subject about which there is always something to say. "I wish they'd teach us more about Vikings."
-Jokes get a smile and invite a comeback. And making fun of yourself shows that you're relaxed and approachable. "OK, no more Jell-O in science projects. My cell model looks like it escaped from a horror movie!"
-It can be fun to rehash the great parts from a movieor TV show. "So you saw that show? How do you think they got the dog to drink the coke?"
-Hey, if you don't have it, you've got to ask somebody. Might as well be him. "Do you have the homework assignment?"
All of these can be very helpful when you feel the urge to talk to a guy!
If you want to get a boy's attention, here's a few tips that might work depending on the person:
1. Let your hair down! It's been proven that the thing that boys look for most in a girl is how gorgeous their hair looks! It shows them how you take care of yourself and if you care about your appearances.
2. Wear cute pants/shorts. And shirts should be about to your butt. (Even though I know you wouldn't try to wear anything ugly!) ;)
3. You could wear a little bit of makeup so you look a little different. But DON'T go overboard. NO lipstick either if you're not at a formal occasion!
4. Straighten or curl your hair sometimes! Almost everyone notices you when you do that!
5. Laugh at his jokes even when they're not funny or don't make sense! (This doesn't have anything to do with attracting, but it helps to get a guy to notice your personality more!)
6. TALK TO HIM MORE. I made the mistake of just hiding from a guy last year because I thought he was too good for me. Don't make that mistake. Once I actually started talking to him, he started to have a crush on me! Adorable ending, right? (... But then the whole thing didn't work out between us! So don't ask me about it!) ;P And that's about it! Good luck!
<3
~Hadden :)
So, of course, it's a new school year. And I want to start fresh. There's also this guy I like. Is there any way I can get him to like me? -Desperate Anonymous
Almost everyone one knows that you can't force anyone to like you. But, eventually, you can convince them. (Especially if you guys were the last people on Earth. Yikes! That's a scary thought! I would be dead!) ( O_o )
Anyway, it all depends on how you look at things, what you want, and what you believe. Lots of girls think the way to get a guys attention is through gorgeous looks. That's only a tiny part of it. (See, it doesn't work if you're totally beautiful, but you're a really rude, annoying, picky person!) Yes, boys like a pretty girl, just like we fall in love with cute boys, but the main thing that gets a guys attention is how kind and sweet you are to him and other people.
Even though boys would rather toss a football to each other instead of talk, like girls always do, strike up a conversation! You can swap your interests, favorites TV shows, and listen to your guys' opinions! ( ^_^ ) It will give you a chance to get to know him, and for him to get to know you!
If you want to get his attention or learn some other things to talk about with him, look at the question I answered above! (You could even try to practice some flirts in front of the mirror!) ;)
Good Luck! <3
~Hadden :)
Anyway, it all depends on how you look at things, what you want, and what you believe. Lots of girls think the way to get a guys attention is through gorgeous looks. That's only a tiny part of it. (See, it doesn't work if you're totally beautiful, but you're a really rude, annoying, picky person!) Yes, boys like a pretty girl, just like we fall in love with cute boys, but the main thing that gets a guys attention is how kind and sweet you are to him and other people.
Even though boys would rather toss a football to each other instead of talk, like girls always do, strike up a conversation! You can swap your interests, favorites TV shows, and listen to your guys' opinions! ( ^_^ ) It will give you a chance to get to know him, and for him to get to know you!
If you want to get his attention or learn some other things to talk about with him, look at the question I answered above! (You could even try to practice some flirts in front of the mirror!) ;)
Good Luck! <3
~Hadden :)
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